Right after having my child, i found out there's no more 'me time'...
Even want to feces pun x leh nak termenung lama2 memikirkan segala masalah hidup yang melanda jiwa. Masalah apa tu mcm byk sgt jer? Every human being got problem in their life. Klu x de masalah means u r not human yet or u r dead already! *sigh
Every husband/father who still existing in this world...
Juz looking around u & see...
I bet u still got ur 'me time' to go outside the house by leaving ur wife, leaving ur child....& meet ur friends...buy ur things & else else else.
But dun u think about ur wife? after delivered ur child, ada x agak2 dia meninggalkan rumah, meninggalkan suami, anak2 hanya utk memenuhi keperluan peribadi.
Ok Honey, i want to go out to wash my hair....bye, taking care our child ok!
Yang, i go out first ok! Siti is waiting for me to have a cup of coffee!
B, i nak keluar cari barang i kejab yer...!
Then guys, x terfikir ke pengorbanan yang dia buat utk org2 yg dia sayang?
She sacrifice her life! yes her life!!
Sometimes, wifey will try her very best to make husby as the 1st person in their life.
Yes, i get u babe! im trying that too!
But, sometime they got betrayed!
Betrayed - maksud aku kat sini bukanlah sebab org lelaki ni ada another woman in their life, tapi maybe cannot move on with new life lagi yang dia dah ada wife utk dijadikan yang terpenting dalam hidup juga! Which is after married, wifey2 nieh akan cuba tell husby & minta pendapat every single thing yang dia nak buat, but end up sedih giler bila dapat tau husby dia buat benda2 x bagi tau dia pun! Yang terpaling sakit, x tau langsung & dpt tau dr org lain. Severe sakit bila wifey jadi antara org yg last dapat tau! then for wut?
Maybe pernah juga simpan rahsia...konon2 rahsia nieh kita (husby&wifey)je yg tau...eventho wifey nieh punyalahhhh nk simpan rahsia sampai mak dia pun dia x bgtau...end up, rahsia tu keluar dr mulut family in-laws....mesti time tu korang rasa di-betrayed sgt2 kan...
Huhu, that's wut we called life beb!
Tu baru perasaan....yg lain2 x terdescribe lagi...
Terlalu besar pengorbanan seorang wanita dalam hidup kita ni...
Tgk mak kita pun dah tau mcm mn...
Umur dah lanjut, still pening2 pk psl anak2 lagi...
Umo anak2 dah tuabangka pun still x dapat membahagiakan hati tua itu lagi...
*sigh
Dear all husby/daddy/father/abah/abi etc inthis world...
Hargai isteri korang...
She is someone who doesn't know u in this world...by then take the risk by delivered your child! breastfeed your child! tiada lagi istilah tido lena....cuba korang take over jaga anak 1 malam, bg can bini tido nyenyak! result = x de maknanya! berdengkur jela dari malam membawa ke pagi! anak nangis, bini jugak yg bangun!
Im writing all these to make uolls out there realize!
& Please appreciate ur wife!
Apa igt bersalin tu x sakit?
Berjaga siang-malam jaga anak tu x boleh buat mental get sick?
Breastfeeding anak siang malam x sakit pinggang?
Then bila mood x de susu drop, mental x disorder pk kan supply utk anak?
Tgk mmg la senang! try lah sekali tgk camne boleh jadi sakit mental x!
Pardon me!
Tanggungjawab rumahtangga tu bukan tugas isteri pun!
Huhu~kbai
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